$175 - Cacao Session, 90 minutes of one-on-one life coaching, massage therapy and energy healing while sipping warm ceremonial cacao to open up your heart chakra.
Feel your heart chakra open and your energy renew when sipping Mayan ceremonial grade cacao imported from Guatemala by Keith's Cacao. Cacao is a super food in and of itself but combine it with massage and energy work and you'll experience a deeper healing. Invidual cacao sessions involve sipping a cup of freshly brewed cacao imbued with intentions set just for your personal healing. After the cacao has begun to work its magic, you will also receive bodywork and energy work combined with personal spiritual coaching to lead you into your deepest potential of healing.
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CACAO CEREMONY, Special Introductory Price $200.00
. . . for up to 8 persons. Invite 7 of your friends to experience the magic of a personalized cacao ceremony. Mayan ceremonial grade cacao is brewed with hot water, Cinnamon, ginger and other spices while being gently imbued with the love and light of healing intentions for your group. Sip warm cacao while learning the story of how cacao came to us on Oahu. The healing power of cacao will open up your heart chakra for a deeper healing.
$25 for each additional person over 8. Perfect for a girls' night gathering.
Defending Your Life is a 1991 movie starring Albert Brooks, Meryl Streep and Riptorn. Albert Brooks is a coward who falls in love with Meryl Streep who has lived a life of courage. Rip Torn is the facilitator in this judgement day comedy. What does all this have to do with vegetables?
One of my favorite scenes in the movie is when Albert Brooks is eating a meal with Rip Torn. Torn is obviously enjoying his meal. Albert is curious about trying Torn's dish but becomes totally discouraged when Torn tells Brooks he hasn't evolved enough to like it - its poo.
On to vegetables.
To my friends, family and clients who claim not to like this or that, especially vegetables - you can like whatever you like if you make up your mind to like it. You can evolve into liking something. You can convince yourself that you don't like something and you won't. And, you can convince yourself that you will like something and eventually you will.
I've done this with a few things. Natto, fermented soy beans, for one. Natto smells like old wet socks and has a stringy consistency. I WANTED to like it though because it's horribly nutritious. I just kept eating natto until I found a way that I liked it and now I eat every morning for breakfast. The same thing goes for a "greens" drink I've recently started using.
I had to chug the first glassful and truthfully, the second glass. Then I decided to dilute it by using more water. Now I drink it easily. I mean really I learned to like the taste of beer and wine. Why not something that's good for me.
Keep saying you don't like vegetables and you never will. Make up your mind to find a way to like vegetables and you will.
It's easier to stay in shape than get in shape. When I tell people I decided to lose 10 lbs, they look at me like I'm crazy. But I got on the scales that I bought to weight my weight loss and body contouring clients. It wasn't good. I weighed in at 130 lbs, just 5 lbs under my full term pregnancy weight.
Now I know that's not a big deal and that they say at mid-life you gain weight. Since when did I listen to what "they say?" So I made up my mind to lose weight. For met hat meant stop eating out and eating big meals at 8 or 9 o'clock at night; not only will I lose weight but I'll also save some money.
Off to Whole Foods I went to buy a week's worth of low sodium organic soup - lentil, minestrone, split pea, black bean . . . After just a few days I lost almost 4 lbs and was down to 126.5 lbs. Little did I know that Catherine at Spa Chi was planning an employee appreciation dinner.
When Catherine cooks, it's pretty amazing. There was pasta with meat and red sauce; thick New York steaks, baked salmon, salad, sushi, bread, corn on the cob, dessert - eclectic I know but totally delicious. My appetite was already primed for spaghetti from watching the Korean series, Pasta, on Netflix. I tried a little bit of everything but it was the spaghetti that killed me. I ate two helpings of it that evening. Not only did it make me have some pretty bizarre dreams but it also gave me back almost all the weight I lost!
Then the next night, I ate more noodles with black sauce & pickled cucumbers after work. After two nights of noodles, I was back up to 129.5 lbs. Damn!
Over the past few years my diet has changed. It wasn't about losing weight or being healthy, it was about energy. I chose to eat food that provided me the highest energy value which seemed to always be a meat, lots of fruits & vegetables and some carbs.
Spaghetti with meat sauce eventually left my diet even though it was a staple while I was raising my children. What happened?
My approach to food has been the same for over decade now. Eat it then pay attention to how my body feels. As I've grown older and continued to abuse my body in various sundry ways, including playing soccer, I've had to pay attention to what makes my joints aches. It soon became apparent that sugar and large amounts of gluten would make my hands and feet swell and make my joints feel like I had arthritis. Ergo, spaghetti & meat sauce left my diet.
But sometimes pasta is worth the pain. Sometimes it's worth feeling achy to eat a wonderfully rich dish of sweet pea ravioli in cream sauce. Paying the price always seems like a good idea while I'm doing it. When it's time to pay, I sometimes have regrets.
Like this morning. Last night I ate two big servings of spaghetti with meat sauce. I ate too much and felt too full. My feet didn't swell. I don't feel achy and I didn't get indigestion. I just had weird, crazy dreams all through the night and woke up at least twice.
So yes, I'm paying the price for the pasta, probably for over-eating pasta more than the pasta itself. And, I'd like to tell you that I'll never do it again but I know it would just be a lie. Somewhere down the road in a few months or maybe a year, something else will come along when I'm willing to pay the price!
Joe Dispenza is one of the stars of the movie, What the Bleep Do We Know. When I first watched it in 2006, it was life changing. It was only after I moved to Seattle that I realized that I had moved to the same location where the movie was filmed. Later in 2011 after I ended up in the hospital for 2 days with what is now termed "broken heart syndrome", I decided it was time to make even more changes.
After meditating for years, I joined a Buddhist meditation group along with attending sweat lodges once a week. I don't know what led me to Dr. Joe's first book, Evolve Your Brain. It was a hard read that took me over two weeks to get through it but it led me to attending Dr. Joe's Level I workshop in Portland, Oregon.
After that workshop, I knew my heart was healed. The following day I stopped taking the medication. A month later when I returned to my cardiologist for a check-up, she confirmed that indeed my heart was fine.
Dr. Joe's second book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, is easier to read and probably more practical. I recommend it to anyone who seriously wants to change.
A few Words about Natto (fermented soy beans) - I first heard of natto at the Supreme Science Qigong workshop at the end of July. Jeff Primack, found of Supreme Science, also does a food healing. He mentioned natto.
NATTO - GOOGLE SEARCH
Do a quick Google search and you'll find that it is claimed to have high amount of both Vit Ks, reduce immune reaction and contain phytoestrogen just to name a few of the health benefits.
What's the catch? It tastes like old dirty socks (not that I've eaten any but . . . )
NATTO - AN ACQUIRED TASTE
The articles say that it is an "acquired taste". That would be an understatement. It smells like a stale, wet towel or maybe old wet socks. It tastes the same way. In fact, Danny, who usually has the courage to try anything, refused to taste natto based on smell alone.
Try it or not. I'm sure you could hide it in something. I ate it all and could probably acquire a taste for it but we'll see . . . . :)
After a massage session today, my client commented that she had never had a therapist help her become aware of the tension in her body or how to use her breathing to relax.
My response was, "really?"
Maybe a session with me is not your typical massage therapy session. I start out by gently running my hand up your arm to get you comfortable with my touch. From there we chat a little bit while I begin the massage. Sometimes we chat a lot if that's what you need.
Usually at some point during the session - it might be right away; it might be later - I suggest a breathing pattern that will take you into deeper relaxation. If I can still feel your mind racing, I will have you silently recite a mantra while you breathe.
Body Awareness
Almost every client with whom I work cannot tell the difference between relaxation and tension. I begin teaching you what it feels like to have a relaxed arm, shoulder, leg . . . In today's session, my client had no idea her arm was tense and her shoulder was up by her ear! She was used to it!
Probably the most useful thing I teach during a session is to have an awareness of the tension in your jaw and TMJ area. It is the first place in your body where mental stress will appear. If you jawline is tense, your thoughts are tense. Tension then runs down into your neck, across your shoulders and down into the middle of your back.
The homework after a massage therapy session with me is usually the same: 1) make big arm movements frequently to get oxygen rich blood pumping through your shoulder girdle to relieve and prevent tension; and 2) B-R-E-A-T-H-E.
I do not want to foresee the future. I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following. Mahatma Gandhi
The topic of more than one conversation before 8:00 a.m. was about C-O-N-T-R-O-L. Most people I work with are under the false belief that if they could just get organized, get things under control, everything would be alright. They work hard; they use their anger and their energy to get things under control.
But what they're really talking about is controlling others. Those very same people do not want to control their own thoughts and emotions - the very things, the only things over which they can have control. Why control thoughts and feelings when others are so wrong?
In that state of mind, it is those others that have control. Most of the time, they live in a state of reaction to the events around them. It is not external events they need to control but internal responses.
Control your thoughts. Control your feelings. Change your world.
We are never lost. We are always just where we belong by right of consciousness.
Can you trust your internal GPS? Do you have the courage to return to the highlighted route? What if you can't find your way? Do you stop and ask for help or do you just drive faster, cursing the gods for getting you lost?
In the book, Relationships & the Law of Attraction, by Abraham-Hicks publications, it said, “ We attract relationships that cause us pain because we need to affirm our core beliefs about ourselves and we attract the relationships we need to help us grow.” But what does it mean when we experience pain in a seemingly healthy, loving relationship? It is within that relationship where we are safe and unconditionally loved that we often experience the most pain as we try to re-enact an old pattern, heal a deeper wound, and begin to mature emotionally. That relationship becomes the greenhouse that allows our soul to bloom.
It’s safe to be alone and work on ourselves. We can totally focus on our own personal development and self-growth. We might feel intermittent loneliness but any deep underlying insecurities may not arise. Any defenses and old patterns of behavior go into remission because we aren’t triggered by another person.
If we do grow, chances are that we will become very attractive. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who exudes self-confidence, well-being, and a beauty that can only come from within. If we’ve progressed very far, we’ll attract a safer, more loving relationship than the last one.
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. ~Marcel Proust
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CACAO CEREMONY, Special Introductory Price $200.00
Defending Your Life is a 1991 movie starring Albert Brooks, Meryl Streep and Riptorn. Albert Brooks is a coward who falls in love with Meryl Streep who has lived a life of courage. Rip Torn is the facilitator in this judgement day comedy. What does all this have to do with vegetables?
It's easier to stay in shape than get in shape. When I tell people I decided to lose 10 lbs, they look at me like I'm crazy. But I got on the scales that I bought to weight my weight loss and body contouring clients. It wasn't good. I weighed in at 130 lbs, just 5 lbs under my full term pregnancy weight. 
A few Words about Natto (fermented soy beans) - I first heard of natto at the Supreme Science Qigong workshop at the end of July. Jeff Primack, found of Supreme Science, also does a food healing. He mentioned natto. 
After a massage session today, my client commented that she had never had a therapist help her become aware of the tension in her body or how to use her breathing to relax. 
The topic of more than one conversation before 8:00 a.m. was about C-O-N-T-R-O-L. Most people I work with are under the false belief that if they could just get organized, get things under control, everything would be alright. They work hard; they use their anger and their energy to get things under control. 
We are never lost. We are always just where we belong by right of consciousness.
Originally published July 2009.
